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Canden TV's avatar

It gets better. And sometimes it gets worse. But eventually, you become invincible.

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Raynya's avatar

So true Canden. Thank you for reading 🫶🏾

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Shanice Graham's avatar

God's timing is always perfect 🙌🏾

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Raynya's avatar

Amen 🥰

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India Douglass's avatar

So many good nuggets in this! Well done, thank you for sharing this vulnerable piece

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Raynya's avatar

Hey India 😁. Glad you were blessed! Thank you for reading and engaging 🫶🏾

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India Douglass's avatar

You’re welcome! You’re an amazing storyteller

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Raynya's avatar

🥹 Thank you. That means alot. All for His glory 🫶🏾

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Tanisha Guillory's avatar

This was SO good! As a woman turning 34 this year, I relate to this. When I feel myself starting to get discouraged by the fact that I want kids, but I'm still single, my go to is usually "Well look at what He did for Sarah" But you're right, I don't want to be a 40 or 50 year old mom with a newborn.

Also when you mentioned the broken version of you would not have been able to steward a marriage, I feel that so much. When I start to want to rush God in my dating life, I remember that He has me waiting for a reason and that reason is for my own good.

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Raynya's avatar

Thanks for reading love! And yea He is perfecting us while we wait. Our marriage blessing will be better than we could even imagine. 🫶🏾

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Raquel Loyo's avatar

In God's schedule, everything is perfect! I remember praying a lot for the things I have today, and I tell myself, "I worried so much about that. I should have enjoyed it because it was still going to happen!" ❤️‍🩹

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Raynya's avatar

Amen. Thank you so much for the encouragement Raquel! It isss going to happen ! 💕

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A New Perspective's avatar

Hey sister 😊👋🏾how are you? Thank you so much for sharing. He definitely sees my heart and I have to continuously work on my anger. So, I started to think like well maybe I’m not ready for marriage because of that inner healing that I need to do. “Marriage is ministry.” Yes!!! I am excited to connect with God through my marriage and see Him in everything!

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Raynya's avatar

Hey sis! Yesss. He is preparing us my love 🙌🏾

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A New Perspective's avatar

I’m not putting this first but I am definitely looking forward to it because whew!😩

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Raynya's avatar

Whew indeed. It is hottt out here ! 😓😂😂

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A New Perspective's avatar

It is another story🤦🏾‍♀️ and..

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Lala Pitter's avatar

We need time! Time to Become! 🙌

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Raynya's avatar

That we do friend 💕

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